When a girl is silent, she’s either over-thinking, tired of waiting, falling apart, crying inside, or all of the above

Hawa untuk Adam

Lemme tell you a story still from my friend, i'm so glad to know him hahaha
let's start ....

sebelumnya, tau kenapa hawa diciptakan? dan kenapa adam diciptakan sebelum hawa? Lemme tell you,
Hawa diciptakan untuk menemani Adam karna Tuhan merasa Adam akan kesepian hidup sendiri dan hal itu harus disyukuri oleh Adam. dan kenapa Adam diciptakan lebih dulu? karena Adam diberikan kesempatan untuk lebih dulu mengumpulkan pengalaman agar kelak Adam bisa lebih bijak dibanding Hawa saat mereka bertemu.

What's the point?

Hawa diciptakan untuk menemani Adam dan hal itu harus disyukuri Adam --> dalam suatu hubungan, pria itu harus lebih banyak bersyukur karena seorang wanita yang menjadi pendampingnya itu adalah pemberian Tuhan jadi bukan pria yang pemberian Tuhan buat wanita. tapi, pria itu adalah pelindung yang diciptakan tuhan untuk wanita dan pria harus lebih dewasa dari seorang wanita. mereka harus melindungi, mengerti, dan lain-lain bukan malah menyakiti seorang wanita apalagi wanita yang mencintainya. pria nitu harus mengerti lebih banyak dibanding wanita karena itu tugas cowok, melindungi dan tugas cewek adalah menemani. makanya ada pepatah dibalik pria yang sukses pasti ada wanita yang hebat. jadi dalam suatu hubungan, pria harus berada di 'bawah' dan wanita di 'atas', pria harus berada di sebelah kanan dan wanita di sebelah kiri. pria terbaik itu adalah pria yang bisa memahami pasangannya sepenuhnya, no doubt or anything else.

"women are meant to be loved, not to be understood"

Sincerely,

PLAYBOY

NOTE : dia ngaku sendiri yang ngomong itu playboy dan bukan cewek egois

To get the best, we have to find and take an effort on it. Nothing best come from waiting, but something the best will come in the patient of finding

God is Our 'Dispenser'

Our heart is like a glass of water. When breakup happens, someone will lose more water, someone will get more water. the one who get the water will feel free and much much better, but the one who lose the water will feel lonely, empty. But ... have you ever realized that we have a 'water dispenser'? Do you know who ? Yes, our Mighty Lord. He's the 'water dispenser' for our life when our glass is empty. Just let Him fill it for us, ask him and He will give.But, how could He fill our glass if we let it closed? So when we asked, just open it. Let  the water fill our glass, let something new comes in to our life.

Sincerely,

Us, God's lil angel 0:)

Heavy Rain

about two days ago my friend stalked my twitter then suddenly he sent me a message to cheer me up, he knew i just in a gloomy mood that time.
he said that i looked like a lil girl under the heavy rain then he was coming to gave me an umbrella. we just talked about nothing, about rain, and umbrella then he gave me some questions

he : "what do you feel when you're on the way to somewhere and it's suddenly raining?"
me : "i'll look into a place that can save me from getting wet because of the rain"
he : "what would you think after get a place to hide from that rain?"
me : "when the rain will stop"
he : "sometimes we're trapped by the rain and we'll need an umbrella. even though we don't bring it currently we'll keep thinking, why don't i bring my umbrella? or why the rain comes suddenly? so, which one is your type ?"
me : "usually i'll think, why the rain comes suddenly first then i'll think again, why don't i bring my umbrella. so what's the point?"

then he said to me,

"First question is describing a person who always blame on themselves. Something bad happen because of their fault and they'll feel guilty. The second is describing a person who always blame on destiny. They hope that something must happen such as they wanted to, they have their own scenario in their life and they'll easily feel that the world is unfair. And do you know, i still have one hidden question, the preferred one, why should i stop because of this rain? This question is describing a problem solver type person. They have their own plan to face the rain, so they don't have to stop. They know that something bad will happen as a risk but they'll be ready to take it. And this last question will always makes a person arrive faster."

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Problems will make us more mature. Life is a game and problems are our enemies, to get higher level we must to defeat them. Maybe some of us think that life will be easier if it just like a game cause there are so many cheats to make us winning the game but you have to know, cheats make it become a boring game. So, if everything you want in your life just come to you easily and you have no problems at all, you'll have a very boring life :)

So, just face your problems in faith of God and enjoy it

"If there's tomorrow when we're not together, there's something you must always remember, you're braver than you believe, stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think. But the most important thing is, even if we're apart, i'll be always be with you"

I don't want to go out and meet new people. I don't want to.

I'm tired of it, and I'm scared.

I already got my heart broken one too many times.I'm not ready to hand it out again.

I guess what I'm afraid of is that I'll find someone new and fall in love with them and then get hurt again. I don't want to go through that. I really don't.

I mean, I do want someone to love and to be by my side, but I'm just afraid of falling in love again. I'm a walking contradiction: I want to fall in love, but at the same time, I don't want to experience the hurt and pain that is associated with it.

- Marcelli SG -

If This Was a Movie

Last night I heard my own heart beating

Sounded like footsteps on my stairs

Six months gone and I'm still reaching

Even though I know you're not there

I was playing back a thousand memories, baby

Thinkin' 'bout everythin' we've been through

Maybe I've been goin' back too much lately

When time stood still and I had you

Come back, come back, come back to me like

You would, you would if this was a movie

Stand in the rain outside

'Til I came out

Come back, come back, come back to me like

You could, you could if you just said you're sorry

I know that we could work it out somehow

But if this was a movie you'd be here by now

I know people change and these things happen

But I remember how it was back then

Locked up in your arms and our friends were laughing

'Cause nothing like this ever happened to them

Now, I'm pacing down the hall, chasing down your street

lashback to the night when you said to me

"Nothing's gonna change, not for me and you

"Not before I knew how much I had to lose

Come back, come back, come back to me like

You would, you would if this was a movie

Stand in the rain outside

'Til I came out

Come back, come back, come back to me like

You could, you could if you just said you're sorry

I know that we could work it out somehow

But if this was a movie you'd be here by now

If you're out there, if you're somewhere, if you're moving on

I've be waiting for you ever since you've been gone

I just want it back the way it was before

And I just wanna see you back at my front door

And I say come back, come back, come back to me like

You would before you said it's not that easy

Before the fight, before I locked you out

But I'd take it all back now

Come back, come back, come back to me like

You would, you would if this was a movie

Stand in the rain outside

'Til I came out

Come back, come back, come back to me like

You could, you could if you just said sorry

I know that we could work it out somehow

But if this was a movie you'd be here by now

You'd be here by now

It's not the kind of ending you wanna see now

Baby, what about the ending?

Oh, I thought you'd be here by now

That you'd be here by now