Teori Komunikasi !

hari ini ujian tekom, teori komunikasi. belajar dengan harapan memperbaiki nilai soalnya nilai UTS-nya rendah, cuma 75. tugas presentasi yang di kasi ga gue kerjain maksimal kemarin, dan gue belajar dari kemarin malem dan lanjut tadi pagi. hasilnya ?
gue gabisa.
absurd.
banyak yang lupa.
thanks !

iwearUP !

holaaaa, how are you blogpals ?
several days ago i just made my own magazine for my exam, and when i was surfing for some picture, i found a cute, lovely, and awesome blog, the author is Diana Rikasari (you must see her blog ! so many inspiration there --> dianarikasari.blogspot.com)
i had never known about her before, and i fell in love with her blog. so many cuteness inside her blog and i found a super duper cute shoes ! it called JOAN Galaxy wedges !
i thought it's one of her collection and i was so curious where she bought it till i used it to be display picture on my BlackBerry
then, one of my friends, chika, chatted me and asked about that shoes. she thought that it's mine, then had a conversation bla bla bla ........ and chika told me, she has seen this shoes before at iwearup.com. yap, of course by Diana Rikasari.
from that chat, i just knew that she has an online shop and it's like a poison for me, AAAAAAA ! there are so many cute and awesome shoes !
i have to buy one of them garrrrr. just kill me, kill me ! xD

JOAN Galaxy Wedges by Diana Rikasari - iwearUP

When a girl is silent, she’s either over-thinking, tired of waiting, falling apart, crying inside, or all of the above

Hawa untuk Adam

Lemme tell you a story still from my friend, i'm so glad to know him hahaha
let's start ....

sebelumnya, tau kenapa hawa diciptakan? dan kenapa adam diciptakan sebelum hawa? Lemme tell you,
Hawa diciptakan untuk menemani Adam karna Tuhan merasa Adam akan kesepian hidup sendiri dan hal itu harus disyukuri oleh Adam. dan kenapa Adam diciptakan lebih dulu? karena Adam diberikan kesempatan untuk lebih dulu mengumpulkan pengalaman agar kelak Adam bisa lebih bijak dibanding Hawa saat mereka bertemu.

What's the point?

Hawa diciptakan untuk menemani Adam dan hal itu harus disyukuri Adam --> dalam suatu hubungan, pria itu harus lebih banyak bersyukur karena seorang wanita yang menjadi pendampingnya itu adalah pemberian Tuhan jadi bukan pria yang pemberian Tuhan buat wanita. tapi, pria itu adalah pelindung yang diciptakan tuhan untuk wanita dan pria harus lebih dewasa dari seorang wanita. mereka harus melindungi, mengerti, dan lain-lain bukan malah menyakiti seorang wanita apalagi wanita yang mencintainya. pria nitu harus mengerti lebih banyak dibanding wanita karena itu tugas cowok, melindungi dan tugas cewek adalah menemani. makanya ada pepatah dibalik pria yang sukses pasti ada wanita yang hebat. jadi dalam suatu hubungan, pria harus berada di 'bawah' dan wanita di 'atas', pria harus berada di sebelah kanan dan wanita di sebelah kiri. pria terbaik itu adalah pria yang bisa memahami pasangannya sepenuhnya, no doubt or anything else.

"women are meant to be loved, not to be understood"

Sincerely,

PLAYBOY

NOTE : dia ngaku sendiri yang ngomong itu playboy dan bukan cewek egois

To get the best, we have to find and take an effort on it. Nothing best come from waiting, but something the best will come in the patient of finding

God is Our 'Dispenser'

Our heart is like a glass of water. When breakup happens, someone will lose more water, someone will get more water. the one who get the water will feel free and much much better, but the one who lose the water will feel lonely, empty. But ... have you ever realized that we have a 'water dispenser'? Do you know who ? Yes, our Mighty Lord. He's the 'water dispenser' for our life when our glass is empty. Just let Him fill it for us, ask him and He will give.But, how could He fill our glass if we let it closed? So when we asked, just open it. Let  the water fill our glass, let something new comes in to our life.

Sincerely,

Us, God's lil angel 0:)

Heavy Rain

about two days ago my friend stalked my twitter then suddenly he sent me a message to cheer me up, he knew i just in a gloomy mood that time.
he said that i looked like a lil girl under the heavy rain then he was coming to gave me an umbrella. we just talked about nothing, about rain, and umbrella then he gave me some questions

he : "what do you feel when you're on the way to somewhere and it's suddenly raining?"
me : "i'll look into a place that can save me from getting wet because of the rain"
he : "what would you think after get a place to hide from that rain?"
me : "when the rain will stop"
he : "sometimes we're trapped by the rain and we'll need an umbrella. even though we don't bring it currently we'll keep thinking, why don't i bring my umbrella? or why the rain comes suddenly? so, which one is your type ?"
me : "usually i'll think, why the rain comes suddenly first then i'll think again, why don't i bring my umbrella. so what's the point?"

then he said to me,

"First question is describing a person who always blame on themselves. Something bad happen because of their fault and they'll feel guilty. The second is describing a person who always blame on destiny. They hope that something must happen such as they wanted to, they have their own scenario in their life and they'll easily feel that the world is unfair. And do you know, i still have one hidden question, the preferred one, why should i stop because of this rain? This question is describing a problem solver type person. They have their own plan to face the rain, so they don't have to stop. They know that something bad will happen as a risk but they'll be ready to take it. And this last question will always makes a person arrive faster."

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Problems will make us more mature. Life is a game and problems are our enemies, to get higher level we must to defeat them. Maybe some of us think that life will be easier if it just like a game cause there are so many cheats to make us winning the game but you have to know, cheats make it become a boring game. So, if everything you want in your life just come to you easily and you have no problems at all, you'll have a very boring life :)

So, just face your problems in faith of God and enjoy it